Transform your struggling marriage into a truly spectacular love
10 Phrases that will destroy your marriage (and what to say instead)
Are you fed up with the same old tired arguments over and over again?
Do you dread coming home because all you get are complaints, insults, and sarcasm?
Or maybe all you get is a cold shoulder, a turned back and very little acknowledgment of your existence.
You’re so fed up with the conflict, coldness and drama that you’re seriously considering calling it quits.
You can’t stand the thought of living the rest of your life in a marriage that makes you miserable.
“Do I stay… or do I go?”
“Can I save my marriage… or is it beyond repair?”
“And if it is fixable… how the heck can I fix it?”
In the 90-Day Challenge Program (which you can complete with or without your spouse), you will know once and for all whether your marriage can be turned around or if it’s past the point of no return.
If your marriage is salvable, you’ll get the guidance, support and specific action steps you need to turn it around, replace hostility with open communication, arguments with understanding, blame and resentment with trust and responsibility, and anger and coldness with love and warmth.
Regardless of which decision you make, you’ll gain life-changing insight into yourself and your relationships, so even if you decide your best option is to leave, you can do so consciously, with your eyes wide open, and not repeat the same mistakes in your future relationships.
Here’s what happens in the 90 day challenge.
- Arrive at your most ideal choice regarding your marriage so you can move forward with clarity, confidence and compassion.
- Change the direction and overall tone of your marriage so there’s less hostility, more civility, greater understanding, and peace.
- Transform your home from a boxing ring into an oasis where you and your spouse feel safe, comfortable and close to one another.
- Heal hurt feelings, resolve old issues, and come together in love, connection and respect… without needing to work so hard at it.
- Know the power and relief of being totally accepted for all of who you are while giving your spouse the same experience.
The 90-Day Challenge is your golden opportunity to get the guidance, insight and action steps you need to get to the root of what’s creating distance or discord in your marriage and know for certain whether your best choice is to stay or move on.
You will learn how to rebuild and revitalize your marriage, should you choose to stay, or know how to part ways with love, understanding and respect.
- Kick-off session (90-120 minutes). We will reassess your present situation (as well as your past history both before and during your current relationship) so we can develop a custom made action plan for you.
- Session II (90 minutes): We will review specific action steps tailored to your needs, goals and situation to establish a sense of calm and build your confidence. From day one, you’ll begin to replace stress and strife with understanding and love, and begin to realize which choice – to stay or to go – best serves you and your spouse.
- Weekly sessions in week 2-12 (90 minutes each) with an additional 5 sessions over the course of the program in an as needed basis. We’ll reassess and implement your unique plan of action, celebrate breakthroughs, review your progress, and zoom in on those areas that need more of your attention and awareness.
- Laser Phone Sessions are available for those times when you need immediate help or feedback that can’t be accomplished via email. You can request a 10-minute phone session to discuss any key issues or breakthroughs you’re experiencing.
- Email support available throughout the 90-Day Challenge, if you need additional guidance or support between sessions. Emails will be answered by the next business day.
- Plus… 90 additional days of ongoing email support after the 90-Day Challenge is completed.
Full day house-call sessions are available upon request.